By John Matonich
I was reading an article about a professional football player recently and he made a comment about one of the things that made him smile a little. He related that when he met new people many times someone would say something to the effect that they “played a little ball” in their day. He went on to say that while he appreciated how many folks had experienced the same sport he loved, he had to chuckle a little about the relevance of their comment to his career. He wisely never tried to correct the comparison and just went on about his business. I never thought much about that comment until recently.
I had quite a few folks in my wood shop over the 4th of July holiday and it was great to meet some new people as well as run into some folks I hadn’t seen in a while. Even though about 90 percent of what I build is custom furniture and décor pieces that are built to my customers’ specifications, I do have a retail area and display a few items I build when time allows. Since my shop is right on the main street of my hometown, it makes sense to have a few things available if someone is looking for a gift or a standard piece for themselves. It also allows me to display some pictures of some of my custom work in case someone is looking for ideas.
What I found interesting was the number of people that visited my shop who made comments about their own woodworking ability. I heard “I do a little woodworking myself” quite often and it made me think about the pro football player’s article I read. I certainly don’t want to put myself at the same level as that pro football player, but it made me wonder how many other professionals hear the same comments.
While I was downstate working for an engineering/surveying company, in my 35 years there, I don’t remember ever hearing a client say “I did a little surveying in high school” while we were discussing his project. I am not sure how I would have reacted, but probably would have compared a few methods with him to see if I could improve my own skills. I did exactly that when someone made the woodworking comment in my shop. Woodworking is a popular activity and I can always learn something new to do my work better.
I have now changed how I relate to professionals I meet or do business with. I met a CPA just the other day and I couldn’t resist telling him that “I balanced a few check books in my day”. He wasn’t sure what to say and didn’t ask about my methods, so I guess he didn’t need to learn any more about how to do it.
I wonder how my dentist is going to react when I visit next and tell him that “I have drilled a few holes in my day”. Given my woodworking background I am sure he will understand and want to compare a few methods.
And that’s the situation as I survey it …
Judith Brooks says
That’s the perfect response. Nobody is a hobbiest, surveyor, dentist or accountant. The almost
eveyone has had a hobby relationship with wood. Being able to earn a living selling your wood products is not one very few can do, but at least they sort of understand what you’re doing.
As an accounting professional, I can tell you NOBODY understands what we do. It’s a giant , secret, mystery to them.
Enjoy your columns very much. Keep ’em coming.
John Matonich says
Thanks, Judith. Appreciate your comments and will keep writing as long as folks keep reading…
Tom says
Brilliant column. Wonderful original topic. Great insight. Good humor.
Ya know, I myself have written a few sentences in my time.
Tom says
And, I like the photo of your clamps. Ya know, I used to clamp some chairs, back in the day.
John Matonich says
Thanks Tom. Appreciate the comments and the smiles… Keep up the good sentences and clamping 🙂
Barbara says
I love looking forward to this column! John, John, and Andy,.. thanks!
John matonich says
Thank you Barbara… really glad you like the column
Al Kurmas says
After getting the bill for my pacemaker, I told my cardio that I was going to start installing them on the side, from my garage, but I needed a few tips from him. He declined.
John Matonich says
There may be a you-tube video available 🙂